What to Say When You Didn’t Hear Them

A lot of people think confidence means never asking someone to repeat themselves.

No. Confidence is being comfortable enough to be clear.

If you didn’t hear them, you don’t have to panic-smile and guess. You can reset the moment with one line.

Use a clean re-ask

Try one of these:

Say that again? (simple + casual)

OR

I missed the last part. What did you say?

OR

One more time. I want to make sure I heard you right.

OR

Can you repeat that a little slower?

If it’s noisy

Name the environment, not yourself:

It’s loud in here. What did you say?

OR

I’m catching every other word. Can you say it again?

These protect your confidence and keep things healthy.

If you heard the words but not the meaning

Use this:

Can you explain that part?

That’s not weakness. That’s clarity.

Confidence deflators

Don’t say:

❌❌❌I’m so bad at hearing.

❌❌❌ I’m sorry I’m like this.

You don’t need to apologize for needing information.

💛

Published by RobyntheSpeaker

Robyn Austin is a speaker, author, and creator of The ROOM Method™, a communication framework designed to help people enter conversations with confidence and intention. Her work focuses on four practical pillars: self-regulation, environmental awareness, intentional contribution, and interaction navigation.

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